DEAR KUKUA, I've been smoking since the age of 17 and I need help to stop. I am a 38yr old man and I started to smoke when I was 17years. This behaviour started when I was in secondary school. I found myself in the midst of bad friends who smoked weed but since I did not feel comfortable smoking...

DEAR KUKUA, I fear I am about to get married to a stingy boyfriend but I hope I can get out of this temptation before it is too late. I am a girl of 25 and thankfully I have a safe job which means I can be financially independent. Kukua, I am about to get married but my issue is that the guy I...

DEAR KUKUA, Please advise me. For the past five years, I have been in a relationship with a lady and we were hoping to get married soon but I left Ghana two years ago. Although I have not been in the country I continue to support this woman, and things are not always easy for me but I try my...

DEAR KUKUA, my husband and in-law are taking me for granted and I am in dire need of advice. I am 26 years and I have been with my husband for a year and we have a child. I am the type of lady that will easily forgive and I don’t like to have clashes with people so I try to get along well with...

DEAR KUKUA, when I was in primary school, I stumbled upon my stepmother in her room m*sturbating with her finger and a p*rn magazine. I am currently 26yrs and I can still remember the incident so vividly that it makes me feel very guilty.My parents divorced when I was a little kid. I lived...

This writeup is different from the previous ones, it’s not really the usual fun type but I wanted to invoke some introspection in our quest to be the better version of ourselves that will lead to experiencing the relationships we all dream of. Those relationships are easily possible, but it...

Dear Kukua, my boyfriend has stopped talking to me after I sent him my n*ked pictures, I am afraid he will leak them. I am 19yrs and a final year student in one of the SHS in the Central Region of Ghana. I met my boyfriend on Instagram a year ago and we finally hit it off after a second date....

DEAR KUKUA, my parents want me to break up with my girlfriend because she is uneducated. I am 27 and she is 26. We have been dating for over 3 years now and we have plans to marry before I turn 29 so we could have our first child at least in my 30s God willing.I am a graduate from KNUST while...

Be it the “aahhh, aahhh, aahhh” in increasing loudness, the “oh my god, oh my gods” or the “I’m coming, I’m coming” we’ve all heard them before. Whether we are the ones uttering them or causing them, they are generally linked to the female achieving the big “O”, 0rgasm.The...

DEAR KUKUA, my ex-girlfriend is married with 3 children but we still have strong feelings for each other we almost had s*x when we met about 6 months ago. I am 33yrs and my ex-girlfriend is 35yrs. Even though she is currently married with 3 children and happy in her marriage, she tells me she...

So, you two start getting all handsy, penetrative s*x starts happening, the man ejaculates; you two want to have another go, the problem is, it is taking forever for him to get hard again. Is that the end of your time together? Do you wait for him to “naturally” get hard, on his own? Do you do...