Why I stopped giving money easily

Zicsaloma has also addressed how financial generosity toward friends and relatives can sometimes create unhealthy dependency.

In his message, the comedian said constant financial support can prevent people from becoming independent.

“When you give your friends money once, trust me, they will always come back,” he said.

He explained that refusal often leads to misunderstandings, even after years of support.

“When you finally don’t give them, they will still hate you,” he added. “So let them hate you from the beginning.”

According to Zicsaloma, excessive financial assistance can encourage laziness and dependence.

“They will become lazy. They will become dependent on you,” he stated.

He believes this pattern affects both the helper and the receiver.

“You can never climb financially,” he said. “And they will not learn how to stand on their own.”

The comedian also spoke about focusing on long-term goals rather than short-term sympathy.

“Maybe you want to save for two years and start a business,” he explained. “But constant giving will destroy that plan.”

However, he clarified that emergencies should still be handled with care.

“Except in life and death situations,” he noted.

Zicsaloma concluded by advising young people to balance kindness with responsibility.

“It’s okay to be financially heartless sometimes,” he said. “If you really want to make money, you must protect your growth.”